Just
like people, dogs have individual personalities and traits. Certain
breeds tend to produce dominant personality types. Within each litter of
puppies there is also a variety of personality types-from dominant to
submissive. If you are adopting a dog that exhibits a dominant,
assertive personality, the following information will be helpful in
establishing your new relationship.
Traits
of a dominant, assertive dog:
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Dominant, assertive dogs think of themselves as the leader in your
family or "pack". This is natural for the dog but sometimes it
is difficult for the human to understand. These dogs are often ready to
challenge for the right to lead. Once allowed to become the leader, the
dog may be willing to fight to retain the position.
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Dominant dogs do not, as a rule, do well around children. They will not
tolerate the quick movements and unpredictable handling typical of
children. Unless you are
there to carefully supervise, do not allow these dogs to be around
children.
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Dominant dogs may be small or large. A small dog with an assertive
personality can be just as possessive, protective and pushy as any large
dog of the same temperament. Do not tolerate aggressive behavior from
either of them. Small or large, a growl or snap is likely to lead to a
bite. Small or large dogs that bite are dangerous.
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Dominant dogs may be subtle in their manipulation of you. When you stop
stroking the dog, he may nudge you to continue. If you resume the
stoking in response to the nudging, he has successfully trained you to
treat him as the leader. Assertive dogs take compliance to mean they
have the right to make you obey them. They nudge, you stroke, they
growl, you resume stroking. It is one small step to growling at you when
you try to make them get off the couch, followed by snapping when you
insist they obey.
Living
with a dominant assertive dog doesn’t mean you can't let your dog
sleep on the couch or have him in your lap when you stroke him.
It just means you need to be very aware of how the dog is
interpreting your actions. You
need to learn the dog's language. You
also need to learn about leadership, so that you can be in charge
instead of a dog calling the shots, if you are in charge, you have the
right to allow the dog on the couch and also to make him get off the
couch when you want. If you are not willing to be an assertive leader,
do not adopt a dog with this personality type. Both you and the dog will
be happier if you select a more submissive dog. Two things help make a
positive relationship with a dominant dog. The first is obedience
training and the second is to establish you as the pack leader.
Establishing oneself as the pack leader and to be followed.
Dominance
and Principles Behind It
For obedience training to proceed smoothly, your dog must consider you
its alpha leader. This means that it considers YOU the boss.
There are a number of exercises you can do to establish and maintain
dominance over your dog. Individual dogs vary in submissiveness. If your
dog is very submissive, you don't need to worry about establishing
dominance (in fact, you may need to tone down your own dominating
behavior to help bolster its confidence). Most dogs are happy to be
submissive: just be sure to show approval at the occasional signs of
submission, and assert dominance if it tries to test you (most dogs
will, in adolescence). A very few dogs may be dominant and continually
challenge you for dominance, in which case you will actively need to
assert and establish your position.
More often, people will misinterpret adolescent high energy or
bratty behavior as ploys for dominance when they are not. Think of a
two-year-old human child testing her parents. She's finding out what the
limits are rather than actually "challenging" her parents for
leadership. Puppies and young dogs do exactly the same thing. Correct
them firmly, but don't go into an all out "dominance
battle" when not appropriate. Returning to the toddler analogy, the
most you might do is a sharp “No-Sit”, or a cuff up under the chin
then a No-sit. You would not pick her up; hold her against the wall and
scream at her. Remember that most dogs are still "young".
Only apply additional pressure or corrections as they grow or are
older and do it along with supervision.
If you are not sure how to correct a dominant dog contact your breeder
for additional help.
Never
mistake being alpha with punishment
An
alpha leader is fair. An alpha leader deserves its position. An alpha
leader does not use fear, punishment or brute force to achieve and
maintain its position. An alpha leader, instead, makes it crystal clear
what behaviors it approves of and which it do not. An alpha leader
expects its subordinates to follow its lead; it does not force them to.
If you get mad at your dog, or angry or furious, you've lost the
alpha position. Dogs do not understand fury. You have to be calm and
focused. You must teach
them the command and show them what you want, and then expect that from
them. Always
show approval at signs of submission.
Praise your dog when it drops its eyes first. Praise it when it
licks you under the chin. Give it an enthusiastic tummy rub when it
rolls over on its back. Be
consistent and fair in your corrections.
You
must demonstrate to your dog that it can trust your orders.
Do
not ever correct the dog after the fact
Such
corrections appear to be arbitrary and unfair to the dog, because it has
no associative memory the way people do.
If your dog is still a puppy, socializing it is a good way to
gain its trust. If
you decide that some action requires correction, *always* give a
correction when you see that action. For example, if you decide that
your dog is not allowed on the sofa, then *always* correct it when you
see it on the sofa. Consistency
can be a big challenge with a family.
Every family member must agree on the basic ground rules with the
dog; when and for what it should be corrected, what commands to use and
so on. Families must cooperate extensively to avoid confusing the dog.
It is best if only one person “actively” trains the dog but
all must participate; thereafter if the commands are given the
same way, everyone in the family can use them. Finally, always use the
minimum correction necessary. If a sharp AH-AH will do, use that rather
than an alpha roll. If a pop under the chin will do, use that rather
than a scruff shake.
Correct
the dog's challenges
Especially during adolescence, your dog may test and/or challenge your
position. Do not neglect to correct this behavior. You don't need to
come down like a ton of bricks; just making it clear you don't tolerate
the behavior is sufficient. BE FIRM! For example, don't let your
dog crowd you through the door, don't let him jump out of the car until
you've given him permission, don't let him jump for food in your hand.
Don't let him ignore commands that he knows.
Learn
how to display alpha behavior
You may not need to use all of these, but you should be familiar with
them. They are listed in "escalating" order. Do not use any of
these if you are angry or upset. The point is never to hurt the dog, but
to show it who is alpha. They work best if you are calm, firm, and
matter of fact. Again, always use the minimum correction necessary. More
important than knowing how to perform an alpha roll is learning to
play the alpha role. That means having the attitude of "I-am-always-right-and-I-will-never-let-my-dog-willfully-disobey-me"
without ever becoming angry or giving up. Picture a small two-year old
toddler. You're not in a struggle over who's "Mom" but over
what the child is allowed to do, and there's a crucial difference in the
two.
Using
an alpha roll on a dog that is already submissive but disobeys because
it doesn't know what is expected of is destructive to the
relationship between you and the dog. Likewise, using an alpha role on a
dominant dog but not using any other positive reinforcements can
alienate it. Most dogs never need to be alpha rolled in their lives.
Furthermore, alpha rolls are one of the strongest weapons in
dominance arsenal. Save it for the gravest of infractions. Being
dominant is no substitute for learning to read and understand your dog.
Proper obedience (which should be a part of any dog's life, even when
"only" a pet) is a two way street and requires you to be as
responsible to your dog as your dog is responsive to you.
There
are a number of ways in demonstrating dominance:
Timeouts: put the dog on a down stay or
if not yet trained to do so, lay the dog on its back and hold it